Excerpts from Library Journal Review:
"The six-step recovery process delineated
here draws on the authors' personal experiences with domestic betrayal.
"The six steps ... are clearly explained; interspersed
throughout are the real-life stories of eight individuals who have
successfully worked through the recovery process.
"...pragmatic,
down-to-earth advice—shot through with their religious beliefs but which
readers of any faith could embrace...
"Recommended for public libraries."
—Library Journal, Sept. 1, 2005
Dale Farris, Groves, TX Copyright 2005 Reed Business Information.
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"While the adult entertainment industry basks in its
60-billion-dollar-a-year profits from the production and distribution of
explicit materials, marriages are being devastated by the impact of
pornography at an unprecedented rate. Readers of Shattered will
find straightforward answers to confronting all forms of infidelity and
sound counsel on recovering from these forms of emotional betrayal,
including the impact of pornography on committed relationships."
—Bishop George Niederauer
Catholic Diocese of Salt Lake City
and President, Utah Coalition Against Pornography
“Shattered offers a powerful look into the lives of
individuals who have suffered the devastating effects of betrayal and
worked through the process of recovery. There is no shortage of
information and advice offered to victims of abuse. However, Shattered
picks up where other books leave off. This book breaks the recovery
process into six manageable steps that focus on all aspects of recovery
from physical to emotional and beyond, realizing that all elements must be
addressed to truly recover from the effects of betrayal. This book focuses
on the fact that recovery is a process that can have wonderful, lifelong,
and positive changes for good.”
—Rebekah Clements, Zero Tolerance to Domestic Violence
Program Coordinator, Weber County, Utah
“Shattered is a most beneficial tool in the recovery
of a betrayed person. It chronicles in a clear, systematic way on how to
navigate the different phases of betrayal. The Domestic Violence movement
realizes that there are many stages on this journey from victim to
survivor and each stage is plagued by adversity. Shattered is a
wonderful guide to keep at hand to let you know that what you are feeling
is quite common, and most assuredly, that you are not alone. I also
believe that what Shattered has to offer is applicable to any
difficult situation, not just betrayal. I know that I will recommend this
book to any woman making the transition from victim to survivor. I truly
think it’s fabulous!”
—Barbara J. Wandyes, Executive Director,
The R.O.S.E. (Regaining One’s Self-Esteem) Fund
“Pornography has become an ‘invisible affair’ for millions
of individuals whose partners do not consent to this form of infidelity in
their relationship. Despite those who claim pornography is harmless fun,
many lives are devastated by its impact. Shattered offers insight
and perspectives for those wanting to confront and overcome this form of
emotional and physical betrayal in relationships.”
—Rory C. Reid, Licensed Therapist
Co-Author of Discussing Pornography With A Spouse
“This book is filled with clear explanations and concrete
examples of the devastating phenomenon of betrayal, which continues to
wreak havoc in increasing numbers of lives and families. Fay Klingler and
Bettyanne Bruin offer specific suggestions and sound encouragement for
recovery, along with the knowledgeable insight of people who have been
there. More than anything else, this book is a beacon of hope.”
—Carolyn Campbell, author of Reunited: True Stories
of Long Lost Siblings Who Find Each Other Again
“Betrayal and loss of trust can have many faces in a
variety of relationship situations and often ends up leaving the betrayed
party with feelings of loss, guilt, anger, depression, and absolute
emptiness in trying to face each day. Klingler and Bruin give hope to
those who have lived in the pain and darkness of betrayal (no matter what
the cause), and gently guide them on their journey into the light, as they
take their lives (and their power) back. Real people's stories combined
with a focus on unending faith provide love, kindness, and hope to all who
seek to heal.”
—Mary Jo Fay, R.N., M.S.N.
Speaker, columnist, “survivor,” and author of
Get Out of Your Boxx! and Live the Life You Really Want
“We define healthy self-esteem as ‘the experience of being
capable of meeting life's challenges and worthy of happiness’ -- and being
responsible and accountable for our actions and results. This vibrant book
meets our definition throughout. Shattered is a ‘proactive book.’
It makes you think as you read. And if you apply just one of the ideas,
you'll be well on your way to recovery and forgiveness.”
—Sharon Fountain, President, National Association for
Self-Esteem
http://www.healthyselfesteem.org
